Toby's Free and Fabulous Blog
Tuesday, April 28, 2026
Thursday, January 1, 2026
Moved to Hawaii
Moved to Hawaii in September 2024. Living at Mānoa Gardens with Aggie in a studio. Most everyone here is in a studio with alcoves. Some are one bedrooms. Lots of outdoor space, resident gardens, community gardens and well kept landscapes.
It was an effort to move from our house in Oregon. Some help from Aggie, Paddy and Lisa was needed. Both Pinkie Pie, Cosmo and the rabbit died this year.Stopped in Maui on the way to stay in a beautiful condo on the beach with Paddy. Very relaxing and healing.
In Manoa Gardens we have two classes I go to-Zumba Gold and yoga. I became responsible for Zumba. Also took a Hula class with Pua another woman who lives here. That and a little gardening keep me occupied.
Sunday, April 24, 2022
76 Trombones Birthday
I made two different cakes out of gluten free (kosher for Passover) premade vanilla and chocolate cake.
The chocolate I layered with chocolate mousse, and the vanilla with strawberry sauce and whipped cream. Both were yum.
It rained the first few days but got nicer the last few. Eugene is beautiful in the Spring. We moved the bunny cage and planted strawberry plants over the fertilized ground.
Went to Heritage Distillery with Harriet and tasted their Butchy Bourbon. Bottled two to take home. Maya came by three times. So good to see her.
Went to two Seders this year. One, sort of traditional, one informal and intimate. They were both wonderful. 
Also reconnected with my work friends for brunch. Very fun.
Saturday, January 8, 2022
2022 A new year
Another year completed. I’m in Hawaii for the winter Dec.1 - Jan. 20, 2022. We watched fireworks from the lanai. Had some effervescent Mead wine, and sushi. Made it through the holidaze.
| Dining at Barefoot Beach |
H and A
| Basja and Toby scooting around Manoa |
| It is still the pandemic but we are at least out about it |
| Aggie harvesting her green onions to bring to Kokua Market |
| On Linda’s Boat with Di, Agg, Birgit and me and a couple of dogs |
Wednesday, June 23, 2021
75th Birthday
The weather was beautiful, we ate outdoors a lot. Paddy made a delicious coffee cake. I made Mojitos.
Sally came over with her annual planting party for my birthday. Its become a new tradition.
I also have pictures of what a young lesbian looks like, thanks to Anno.
Wednesday, April 8, 2020
Passover during Coronavirus
I've been busy doing crafts, making prints on cloth, and making masks for protection. Planning on drinking 4 cups of wine, eating bitter herbs, and charoset and make 4 wishes for the world.
Will make matzoh ball soup, and matzoh fry. Stay healthy everyone. Kunehura, Dayenu, and Shalom.
Friday, February 23, 2018
Just Mauid

Aggie and I went to Maui and the Big Island for our honeymoon. It was a wonderful vacation, we got along so well and had fun exploring the two islands.
We went to the Big Island to visit Diana and Lori. We stayed in Lori's condo, and it was quite wonderful. Lush gardens and a solar heated swimming pool. She lent us her truck for getting around the island. We went dancing at Gertrude's a jazz club, and yes we danced.

One day we visited Lori at the beach where she was protecting a baby seal that had just been born. After that we went to a bar and had pupus and drinks. Lot's of fun.














